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You can increase or decrease the pressure of the vibrator against the perineum to control the sensation.”ĭon’t get bent out of shape if you don’t reach orgasm the first few (or even several) times you try this. “Start with lighter vibrations, and then work up to the most intense power. You might want to warm up with light strokes, then increase pressure into a firmer massage,” Bradbury suggests. “Use a firm pressure to massage, rub, or stroke the perineum. “Stroke while stimulating to experience multiple orgasms, or just stimulate that area alone to reach your ‘milking point.’” (For those of you who don’t know what prostate milking is, it’s when you're able to ejaculate repeatedly, even without an erection. “Apply pressure to the inch right before your anus and at a certain point your going to find a spot that sends little jolts of electricity through your body,” Saynt explains. Get on the bed, lie on your back, and relax. This prostate vibrator has a back and forth motion which is perfect for both internal and external stimulation. If you don’t own a prostate massager, get one ASAP. Vibration is an awesome way to get the perineum involved in your pleasure game. With time, you should feel light contractions of your testicles.” You can push your pelvic and rectum muscles in and out as you apply pressure to better position your prostate to the inner walls of your perineum. You can also squat to make it a little easier to reach your spot.
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Continue to apply pressure as you get closer to your anus. “Take your index and middle finger and begin applying pressure, lifting up slightly to feel your fingers dig into your perineum. “While standing, try ‘picking yourself up,’” Saynt explains. If you’re going to orgasm through the perineum, you need to explore that body of yours! While you’re in the shower, use your warm hands to see what’s going on down there. That's stilly-enjoy yourself and forget all the nonsense! Due to outdated notions about men's sexuality, guys aren't exactly shouting from the rooftops about stimulating areas outside their penis and balls. Stigma may also be holding guys back from exploring their perineum. “These areas are rarely explored in pornography and are never discussed in sex ed classes, so it's almost impossible for men to think there would be anything sexual about their perineum,” says Daniel Saynt, founder of The New Society for Wellness (NSFW), a sex-positive members-only club that hosts sexual education workshops. Given the inconsistencies in sex education around the country, many of us aren't fully aware of our anatomy. You might be wondering how it is that you haven’t heard about perineum pleasure or orgasms before now.